We have this hope as an anchor, firm and secure. Hebrews 6:19
As the holiday season approaches, it becomes evident that a whirlwind of emotions and expectations accompanies this time of year. On one hand, we eagerly anticipate cherished traditions, joyful family gatherings, and the enchantment of witnessing young children experience the magic of Christmas. We look forward to celebrating the birth of Christ through the traditions, songs, and festivities that define this season. However, on the other hand, there can be an overwhelming pressure as we navigate family dynamics and the weight of unmet expectations. In a recent coaching conversation, I was struck by a powerful reflection that shifted my perspective and reminded me of the anchor we have in Christ.
There is a burden found in the word expectations. Expectations, when unmet, can leave us feeling heartsick. They can be like millstones tied around our necks, dragging us down and stealing our joy. Just like a millstone dropped into water, they cause us to sink, losing our breath and sense of direction. It is in these moments that we realize expectations hold no life for us. They only serve to burden and suffocate our heart.
During this coaching conversation, by God's amazing grace, we were able to shift our focus away from these burdensome expectations and turn our attention to peace. True peace lies in our identity as children of God. It was a beautiful reminder that Christ is our anchor. Unlike the millstone that weighs us down, He stabilizes us and holds us firm through any storm. Even when we feel tossed underwater, struggling to catch our breath, He remains our anchor, providing us with a sense of identity and an unwavering peace.
As we head into this holiday season, it is crucial to hold on to our anchor, our true north as my client said.. Christ is the one who stabilizes us amidst the unsteady moments. It is essential to recognize the expectations we have for ourselves and those placed upon us by family and friends as well. If left unnoticed, these expectations can steal our joy, suffocate our spirits, and become burdensome millstones. Instead, let us delight in our anchor, finding solace and peace in our identity as children of God.
So as you enter this beautiful and wonderful season of celebrating the birth of Christ, remember the anchor you have in Him. Amidst the chaos and unmet expectations, He remains the source of stability and peace. By embracing identity as a child of God, you can find solace and release yourself (and others) from the burdensome millstones of expectations.
So, my friend, as you navigate the holiday season, hold on to your anchor, your true north, and allow Christ to stabilize you in the midst of the unsteady moments. May you experience the joy, wonder, and peace that come from delighting in Him.